In the wake of pandemic disruptions and an unprecedented rise in school shootings, a majority of parents place less of a premium on their children鈥檚 academic success than their mental well-being and character.
The data are part of the Pew Research Center鈥檚 latest edition of Parenting in America Today, a nationally representative survey of more than 3,700 U.S. parents with children under age 18. It was conducted in fall 2022. A previous iteration of the survey was conducted in 2015, but because of changes, it is not directly comparable.
Even so, the findings give 糖心动漫vlog a window into the priorities and parenting approaches of their students鈥� families at a time when schools need parents to buy into intensive academic interventions to help students catch up academic ground lost during the pandemic. And they suggest 糖心动漫vlog will need to make parents aware of the mental and social-emotional supports they give students, not just academic ones.
Parents in the survey鈥攅specially moms鈥攔eported feeling stressed and exhausted, but they also seem to be working to give their children more freedom and autonomy. For instance, while in 2015, 62 percent of parents described themselves as 鈥渙verprotective鈥� at least sometimes, only 45 percent of parents in 2022 said the same.
These findings displayed some differences across racial lines as well. In particular, 55 percent of the Black parents surveyed consider themselves overprotective鈥�10 percentage points more than the average for parents in 2022. But it鈥檚 not clear from the Pew data why there are such large differences in parenting approaches.
One 47-year-old mom told Pew researchers she was 鈥渢rying to keep [her kids] independent and not being a helicopter parent.鈥�
Students鈥� mental well-being is critical
In the survey, 40 percent of parents of children younger than 18 report being very or extremely worried about their child struggling with anxiety or depression鈥攁nd more than three-quarters of parents were at least somewhat worried about this.
鈥淧arents鈥� concerns about their children鈥檚 mental health are top of mind these days ... followed closely by concern over bullying,鈥� said Kim Parker, Pew鈥檚 director of social and demographic trends research. 鈥淭hese items trumped certain threats to their children鈥檚 physical well-being (such as being kidnapped, beaten up, or shot).鈥�
Only 55 percent of the parents Pew asked in 2015 said they were at least somewhat concerned about their child鈥檚 mental health. While significant shares of parents across racial groups had worries about their children鈥檚 mental health in the 2022 survey, 43 percent of Hispanic moms voiced this concern鈥攈igher than any other racial group.
Nearly 3 in 4 parents in 2022 also reported being very or somewhat concerned about their child being bullied, up from about 60 percent of the parents surveyed in 2015.
Nearly half of Black parents worried about school bullying, compared to closer to a third of parents of other racial groups.
In a separate national survey conducted by the Ipsos research group last summer, a majority of parents said their school-age children were 鈥渓azy鈥� and 鈥渄isrespectful,鈥� among other issues, but nearly 7 in 10 said they relied on 糖心动漫vlog in schools to reinforce values in students. Pew researchers found a majority of parents also consider hard work and honesty top values to teach their children, though they were not asked about how much of a role schools should play.
Parents want financial stability more than college attainment for their kids
Seven years ago, the majority of parents said there was no such thing as being 鈥渢oo involved in their children鈥檚 education.鈥� In 2022, parents seem to be taking a more relaxed approach.
One 40-year-old mother told Pew researchers she planned to raise her children with more emphasis on extracurriculars. 鈥淢y parents were overprotective and didn鈥檛 let me do anything or go anywhere. They were also unable to afford to put me in any classes or lessons. They valued academics above all else,鈥� she said. 鈥淲hile I think academics is very important, I would like my children to have a more well-rounded upbringing.鈥�
In both 2015 and 2022, roughly the same share of parents, 2 in 5, said getting a college degree was highly important for their children. Then as now, white parents were less likely to put a premium on college than were parents of other racial groups.
鈥淚 wouldn鈥檛 say it necessarily represents a move away from college as a general aspiration,鈥� Parker said, 鈥渂ut parents are definitely putting a heavy emphasis on financial independence and job satisfaction.鈥�
鈥淭he education patterns are interesting here,鈥� she noted. Parents with a postgraduate degree were the only group with a majority who considered it extremely or very important that their child earn a college degree鈥攁bout 10 percentage points more than parents with either no college degree or a bachelor鈥檚 degree.
鈥淚t鈥檚 the parents with some college (that is, they attended college but didn鈥檛 attain a four-year degree) who place somewhat less importance on this,鈥� she said. 鈥淥nly a third say it鈥檚 extremely or very important to them that their child graduate from college. This is a group that tends to have high levels of college debt, which may be feeding into these attitudes.鈥�
